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Basic
Sex Positions
- There is no right or wrong way to enjoy sexual intercourse with your
partner. If you are both having a good time, it's right for you. That is
what should be the important deciding factor. The entire reason we have
sex is to experience pleasure with our partners, as long as both parties
are having a good time, you are doing everything right :-) There are a LOT
of different positions for sexual intercourse! Some people prefer to be
lying down, some standing, some sitting. Some men prefer being on top of
his partner, some underneath, , and some prefer their own tried and true
favourite positions. You need to discover what works best for you and your
partner.
The Positions
We'll present
the most popular positions, and what features make each one fun - plus any
minuses to each position. Some people love to fuck while lying on their
sides. Some people read the Karma Sutra and try some truly amazing
positions for making love, and some prefer their own tried and true
favourite positions. Please remember that when trying any new sexual
position, the man should be gradual inserting his penis into his partner
and should begin with a slow stroke till both partners have had time to
accustom themselves to the new position so that they feel more confident.
Missionary Style
The missionary position is the most common position for intercourse in the
western culture. The reason we call it the missionary position is because
in the nineteenth century, Christian missionaries considered it the only
"proper" position for intercourse. These missionaries tried to convince
foreigners to adopt this position as they claimed it was less
"animalistic" than other sexual positions. What it basically is is the man
gets on top of the woman, with both partners facing each other. He gets
between her legs, inserts his penis, and lies on her while using his hands
or elbows to hold up part of his weight and to move him. In reality, the
man on top position can be pretty versatile. Some people enjoy this
position, feeling it is intimate because you can see your partner's face.
If the woman holds
herself just right, she can easily enjoy the man's pubic bone rubbing her
clitoris (allowing her to orgasm). If her partner wants deeper
penetration than the missionary position typically offers, his partner can
raise her legs and he can pull her forward.
Woman on Top
Many couples prefer the female superior position also known as the woman
on top position. A lot of women like this position because they can
control how deep and how hard the penis' strokes are. By experimenting
with the positions of the body to cause changes in the angles of
insertion, the woman can frequently enjoy better stimulation of the
clitoris lying on top.
Also the woman can kneel
over her partner or squat over her partner. She can face him or face away
from him. A squatting position allows the woman to use her calves as
well as her thigh muscles for motion. Or while squatting, she can put her
feet on the floor in order to partly stand and then lower herself. This
position is great if either the man or the woman wish to masturbate the
woman's clitoris. Woman on top is also a perfect position for a woman who
likes to look at her partner's face during intercourse.
Lying on Your Sides
This is the best position for the woman who likes to masturbate during
intercourse. It leaves her front area fully open to be touched. Many
women find that the easiest position to allow use of a vibrator when being
fucked from behind when both partners are on their sides. Also there are
amazing opportunities for the man to fondle his partner's breasts - or
anything else he likes.
Some couples find that
far more body to body contact occurs while spooning on their sites,
allowing them to feel connected with their partner. A lot of men also
find they can last longer in this position because it does not allow as
vigorous a stroke. It is not possible while spooning to easily enjoy a
long stroke, but a deep stroke works quite well. This is an excellent
position for intercourse when the woman is in her last few months of
pregnancy as long as you are careful not to fuck too deeply. Experiment a
little with this position - try it with the woman's upper leg up, or
down. Try thrusting in slightly different angles. You can find a LOT of
different sensations using this position!
Standing Up
Adventurous couples find standing during intercourse can be quite
exciting. The easiest way is to have the woman bend over. This way, her
vagina is available and open, and her partner will find himself able to
penetrate especially deeply. Also you can enjoy looking down at your
partner in a totally different way. If you're a guy who enjoys using a
little more athletic prowess, this position is a good one. You use more
energy standing than you do lying down or sitting. Also it takes more
balancing, so be sure that both partners have positioned themselves and
are well-balanced before attempting to have intercourse while standing -
you wouldn't want to fall.
Also some people sit the
woman on a desk or dresser. The male stands while his partner sits with
her pelvis forward and her legs apart at the edge of the surface. Man
standing woman sitting is a great position because it allows the man
intense control of his thrusts. Also, the women can control the angle that
the penis enters her by shifting her hips, allowing her much better
orgasms using this position and masturbation together. Experimenting with
new sexual positions can keep sex fresh and new. Each new position can
bring new experiences in touching, in angles, in prolonging your sexual
experience or in making it more passionate. Some positions may allow one
of you to have more intense orgasms, or to find different sensations and
different feelings in joining your bodies.
Having new positions and
experimenting with them can provide endless variety to any relationship,
whether established or brand new.
A bigger penis can help
you to reach the "g-spot" which can give women bigger and better orgasms.
She may also experience multiple orgasms as well. You can read up on how I
enlarged my penis by reading, my penis enlargement story. If you
are interested in more sex positions and how to become the best lover
your partner(s) have ever had then visit my recommended site The
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