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When to plant that first kiss? Most of us men only care about
when we will get some action for the first time, let alone a measly
kiss. This is where we make too many mistakes with women. If you
aren't out to get a quick piece of ass, take it slow. You should be
able to tell if you are going to get laid quickly. If she has screwed
more than two of your friends, you know you will get her in the bag
quickly. Often times though it isn't that easy. We want to rush
things. If the girl is sweet and she takes over your heart, then there
is no reason to make things move to fast. Instead, enjoy her company.
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The
mistake most men make is that they think they should get a kiss on the
first date. In my experience this isn't true. I think that if we rush
it too fast, we will end up scaring her away.
Think of it like you are in the woods hunting a deer. If you go in too
fast, you will make too much noise and you will scare it away. If you
do that, you will end up with no delicious deer meat to fill your
stomach.
Instead you go in
slow. You walk slowly so you don't make too much noise. You scan
the landscape to make sure there is no deer in the area before moving
on. If you see that there is no deer, then you slowly creep up to your
next waiting spot. You know if you do this, you will eventually get
that deer. When you get that deer it will be the most joyful feeling
you ever had. You will eat the meat for days to come and enjoy it like
it was your first bite.
Your first kiss should be the same way. You should be just like you
would be if you were waiting for the deer.
Don't push it too fast, or you will scare it
away.
What is the hurry? If you hurry too fast you will scare her away.
Would you run up behind the deer in the woods? No! You would creep up
to it and be patient. You know if you are patient, you will get your
kill.
You have to understand her way of thinking.
Without understanding how a woman a
woman thinks, you will end up putting yourself in a bad situation.
Ever wonder why you aren't getting laid? Here is one of the reasons.
Unless she is a crazed slut, she has to be careful. In this day and
age of rape and violence towards women, she has no choice. It could
save her life. A woman today has a real reason to be afraid. You can
pick up any newspaper and almost every time read about some violent
act that has taken place on a woman.
She is
smart, she is protecting her safety. We are taught from a child to
stay away from strangers. Unless your date is your sister, then
chances are she doesn't know much about you. If you are going on a
date with your sister,
I'm
afraid I can't help you out. You need professional help. |