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1. One of a kind
-Women love to be pampered and we love to be adored. We love to
have a man know what our favorite flower is.
Ask and we will tell, it's that simple. Me personally I hate red
roses. men give them to women all the time because they think "well
everyone else like them so will she" WRONG! Each one of us is a
different person. She might love roses but if you're trying to get me
get me something that's different. Exotic is always good. Something
you don't see around alot. Just a simple flower can make a huge
difference in the way she looks at you. Make a night she'll never
forget. Being as polite as possible but letting her know that you have
thought about the date and you think she will enjoy what you have
planed for the two of you. A woman likes a man who's in control. Don't
get me wrong we like to have some control too but there's just
something about a man that knows what he wants. It's very sexy.
2.Quiet time
- It's very hard to get to know someone when you're at a loud
party. After you have been eyeing the girl you want for a little while
to see if she's taken or if she's with someone etc... ask her if she's
like to have a drink with you. Pick a quiet spot and get to know her
and let her know you. If all goes well with that conversation ask her
if she'd like to go out for coffee or a quiet walk just outside. You
don't want her thinking that you're trying to rape her or anything so
if she says no relax and take it slow. Make her feel safe. Whatever
you do give her your undivided attention. Women crave this!
3. brawn and brains
-Let her knwo that you're into her. Make comments on how smart
she is. Women love that. There's no better feeling then when someone
just out of nowhere and compliments you. Smile at her and say "you're
amazing, you're intelligent and beautiful". Don't always talk about
how pretty she is, that can get dull after a while. We want to knwo
that you're not only thinking about our physical attributes. We like
you to think of us as equals.
4.I need a say
-Opinions, we all have them and we all voice them. Be open mined
when listening to her's. Ask her how she feels about things. About
life,death,love anything to see how she feels about certain topics.
Get to know her mentally the rest will all come in time and you'll
both be more in tuned with each other.
5.Make an impact
-Woo her, meaning the little things make a big difference.
Men today don't open doors for women and women love that. Do the
little things that make a difference. Also do things like when ordering desert only order one not two.
This way you can share it. Feed her and let her feed you, make a
little game out of it. Write a little note and have it sent to her
office " looking forward to tonight". We all know that women pick at
the little things because most men don't bother anymore. Make an
impression and do them.
6. Mood of romance
-Create an atmosphere of comfort. Appeal to all her senses. Play
slow romantic music. Get her favorite beverage (there's nothing worse
then drinking something you don't like or drinking it because you have
no choice). Talk with respect and listen to her, treat her like a
queen. Wherever you bring her make sure it's clean and relaxing. When
you get her to this point you can relax too.
7.
-Foreplay isn't oral sex and kissing. Foreplay is anything to set
the mood. Example: send her flowers at work for no reason at all. Let
her know you're thinking about her. When the night arrives (the date)
take her by the hand a give a soft gentle kiss. Don't be too pushy
with her you might scare her. Take things nice and slow, it will all
happen when it's ready to happen.
8. Kids shall play
-Playtime is the best part of a date I would have to say. At home
or out in public. Order one plate for the both of you, feed each
other, tease one another, enjoy each other. This is the time when you
let her know that you have a serious side but you also know when to
hang up your tie. Don't be afraid to get a little dirty. Act as if
you're all alone. Show her how playful you are, women love a man that
loves playtime.
9.Forget about it
-Surprise! So you plan the whole date and it seems like she's not
having much fun. Well forget about it! Let fate decide whats going to
happen next. The whole point of this date is to allow the two of you
to get to know each other and enjoy your time with each other. Make
suggestion and ask her if there's anything that she'd like to do with
you.It's better to change and redirect plans then one or both of you
not having a good time.
10.For me?
-Women love unexpected gifts from a man. It makes them feel
special.
Give her something that's for her, not the last girl or whatever.
She's different so treat her differently. Women don't like to be given
the same flower or the same gift as the last girl. We want to be
treated differently. Give her your gift when there's only one way she
can show you her appreciation for her gift.
Recovery Tips:
*Ending relationships is hard. Be as nice and respectful as
possible.
*If you think you might have a S.T.D (sexually transmitted
disease) you might want to take a walk to your local sexual health
clinic.
*I know it's hard and it really hurts when you break up, but
that's life. We all move on to another. Ask yourself this "why did we
break up"? When people break up it's usually a sign that something's
not there anymore. If you were cheated on or she cheated on you, then
whoever did it had no respect for the other. Find someone that you
will respect.
*Lust is where you're attracted physically but not mentally. Love
is where you love the person mentally, emotionally and physically.
After you've have sex see if it's lust or love. Love after sex is
still there you can feel it. Lust is there and then it's gone.
*Winning a woman's heart:make her feel like she's the only woman
on the face of the earth.
*Take life a step at a time (day by day)
*First and foremost. Pick the perfect
location. A little corner table, sitting beside each other. Candle
lit, a nice bottle of wine. Soft romantic love songs. (Find out what
her favorite songs are) Don't forget to bring her her favorite flower.
Last but not least that special gift just for her. |
