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Women hate to see their men stare at other women. That is why
most of us guys have to look at porn in secret. They get too jealous
at us looking at other women. So, we jack off in private and they get
mad at that too. They get mad at the idea that we are having any kind
of pleasure that doesn't involve them. Sometimes I have wondered if
this is just another attempt to control us. On the other hand, I know
that it is. When you turn on the television, you see a ton of
different programming. You can watch soaps, sports, talk shows,
anything you can imagine. This is true with porn as well. |
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These tend to be the type of movies
that you fast forward to the sex scenes.
If your woman is skeptical about porn, I would go with one of these
types of movies. She will enjoy the content of it, while you enjoy the
sex scenes. Sometimes in life you have to give to receive.
I think some women don't like porn because it makes them feel uneasy
about themselves. They see you going ape shit about a woman who has
perfect breasts and a nice round ass. They see your penis get hard
super fast looking at this woman comp aired to when you are in bed
with her.
I think men would get upset if women were the same way. Luckily, women
aren't as much into porn as we are. Or we would all sound like a pussy
and complain like our girlfriends do.
If your
woman likes any kind of porn, great. Enjoy it with her.
It will
help you enjoy your sex life more. If she doesn't like porn, try and
see if she has a fetish she would like to explore. Maybe she would
like to see some guys with big dicks get it on or something. That
isn't as bad as it sounds. If she is into something like guys with
really big dicks, just makes sure you find some that are having sex
with women you find attractive. This way you both win.
There is an increasing market for female porn viewers. I have seen
many women go to the adult bookstore in my area to buy things. They
all might not be buying porn movies, but the fact that they are going
into such a place tends to show they are becoming more open.
I used to know a woman who loved watching gay porn. Before you spit
out your morning coffee, think about it. We enjoy seeing two women go
at it, why wouldn't women enjoy watching gay men have sex? I know that
seeing two gay men have sex can curdle the milk in your morning coffee
and make your penis more limp than a worm on a sidewalk, but think
about it. If you want her to watch those hot lesbians go at it, why
not give and take a little. If she gets turned on, maybe she will want
you to go down on her while she watches it. If that is the case, you
won't have to watch any of it. All you will be focusing on will be her
canal du stink.
Porn
can be a great way to spice up your sex life. On the other hand, it
can ruin you. There are plenty of people in this world who are
addicted to porn. That's right, they are addicted to it like a drug. I
don't know if they shake if they haven't wacked it to a porn movie
lately, but I think you get the drift.
If you find that you are addicted to porn or can become addicted to
it, I would suggest that you stay away from it. It will do nothing but
harm you in the long run. There are support groups for people who are
addicted to porn. I know that the whole idea of being addicted to porn
seems weird. It is like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate.
How could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?
Like most things when it comes to sexuality, I wouldn't force her to
enjoy your love of porn. That will do nothing but make her hate it
more in the long run. Instead, introduce it slowly and see how she
responds. I would go with some soft core stuff. I wouldn't rush right
into a gang bang movie or a bukakke movie right away. That will turn
her off in a second.
If she
strongly opposes you looking at porn, well, look at it while she isn't
there. Make sure that your computer doesn't leave any tracks behind
that you have been looking at porn. Make sure if you are watching a
porn tape, that you take the tape out of the VCR. Nothing would piss
her off more than to turn on the VCR thinking that she is going to
watch her favorite soap that she taped while she was away, only to
find two big breasted women enjoying a bit of lesbianism.
Like
most things in life, moderation is the key. Don't over due it. If she
sees that you want to watch porn every time you have sex, she will
think that she can't arouse you. If that happens, watch out. You won't
get laid for a long, long time. Then you will have to look at porn
when you are horny! |